Wednesday, August 31, 2011

It seems like a minute ago that...

Victoria headed off to school, starting Kindergarten. I remember walking her to school, hand in hand and then holding my breath as she entered the school... I then remember her crying and yelling at the top of her lungs on day 3 that she loved her Mommy MORE than school!. OOOOHHHH Where did the time go? Today Victoria started her first day of Grade 11! Senior year. God willing, starting College next year. Let's just think about today! This is the first, first day of school that I didn't line her up and snap her picture... I am ashamed! She is in pictures indeed, but not the same typical first morning ceremony here today! At 16, she was ready to take on the day quite on her own! Where did the little girl I had to coax go? :) I am so proud of her. She is an incredible girl. I pray that she continues to make good decisions, and that she has a splendid year ahead.

It also seems like just a moment ago that a very brave little 15 month old reached her arms out to me, so unexpectedly in the doorway of an apartment building on the other side of the world, and has had a grip vise on my heart ever since! Oh how I have treasured and appreciated every single moment that I have had at home with our darling Mara-Grace. I have had the extreme privilege of sharing our days and teaching and also learning from our Mara. She is a wonderfully sensitive little soul and I pray for her as she embarks on this new journey in her life.

Yesterday, Mara-Grace, Kevin and I went in to meet with her Kindergarten teacher. She was a little shy but seemed to enjoy all she saw. Her teacher seemed kind and organized and patient. I trust that she will be good to our little one. Mara-Grace will be going to school at an English school, but in the French program. I was impressed as the teacher spoke mainly in French to Mara and then would add on little hints in English. We all liked Mara's teacher, Mme. J.

Today was Mara-Grace's first day of Kindergarten (half the class is there today). Tomorrow is a holiday for Mara and then the entire class will be at school on Friday. Anyway, Mara-Grace was up bright and early and told me that she was one finger nervous and 9 excited! Great sign! We headed out (YES all of us! We were all holding our breath this morning hoping it would go smoothly. So many uncertanties. ) to the bus stop at the end of our lane. We waited on the bus and I filled Mara-Grace's hand with kisses, and she did the same to me (Just like in the book, "The Kissing Hand"/my favorite btw!) She kissed and hugged us all again as the bus approached and the door opened an on she climbed. At the top she hesitated as she looked for a seat. I waved at her bus driver who kindly told her that that was a good seat or something like that! In she sat and I could just see the top of her ponytail as she drove away. Ohhhhhh That was one emotional moment. We were all moved. Tori stayed home to then catch her own bus (thus my missing her picture op! LOL) and Hannah who wondered where on earth Mara went and Kevin and I jumped in to the car to follow the bus! Ok, we raced to the school, no sign of the bus at all... And waited... I had told Mara that we would be there to wave at her as she came off the bus. I also prepared her that she might not see us (incase we couldn't get parking, there were too many people, or the bus was faster etc.) but that we would be waving from where we were. So there we were waiting... We could see her teacher in the yard with a few students around her. No sign of Mara-Grace. Bell rings. OK... No worries bus must be a little late... Then, I noticed the teacher hold up a school bag. Wow! Same pattern. Then from the back of the yard comes a running little girl with a swinging ponytail! MARA!!!!!!!!!! She must have had a direct run to the school on the bus and then, ran off to play!!!! She looked fantastic! I am thinking at this moment do we slip off as we don't want to upset her as the Bell has rung etc... No, we call out and she waves and blows us kisses, then lines up and throws another kiss and heads inside. WHAT?! This was so NOT how I feared the morning would go. Thank God! She did so amazingly well. We had tried to prepare her as best we could, but we ourselves were certainly unprepared for this! I was so proud! In the beat of a moment she went from fearing and dreading the start of school, to smiling and throwing kisses as she entered! She never ever ceases to amaze me!

Now, here I sit with my little Hannah Faith at my side playing with beads. I am adorned with bead rings and bracelets as I type. I know this will be a change for Hannah to not have her side kick with her constantly. She is used to playing non stop with Mara-Grace. I have explained that we will have Mommy and Hannah time in the morning, then it is lunch and nap and then when she wakes up at 3pm, Mara will be home!!!!

I am so thankful that the start of the school year has gone so smoothly. I cannot wait to hear about "the first day!". I am one proud Mama today.

How blessed we have been! xoxo






**** Update! Victoria had a half day today and enjoyed her first day. She is happy with her schedule and teachers! Victoria, Kevin and I kept watching the time all afternoon, and headed out to greet Mara-Grace off of her bus. She was as cute as a button, and a VERY HAPPY one as she told us all about her day! She had a wonderful start to Kindergarten and is 10 fingers excited for school on Friday! xo

4 comments:

  1. My hearts feels for you! Time flies...

    I am so happy that the first day went well for everyone. I love that just when we think we know what our girls will do, they go and do something even better than we thought.

    Keep smilin!

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  2. Oh my...Jen.....what a moving and beautiful post. I can feel everything you were feeling yesterday. I'm thrilled that Mara-Grace had such a perfect start to school. You really did a great job of preparing her. 10 fingers excited - I love it!

    Ah....it's all going so fast. It'll be nice for Hannah to have some Mommy time now before her journey begins too. I'm happy to hear how well Victoria is doing.

    I think about you a lot even though I don't write often (crazy busy with this new business now).

    Sending hugs,
    Wanda

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  3. Yay for Mara Grace! We are in the same boat with Naomi starting kindergarten too. Today was an easy day as it was a 1-hour meet the teacher day with the parents but I keep reminding Naomi that she will be there by herself "like a big kid" tomorrow! I sure hope it goes as well as it did for Mara Grace!!

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  4. Yipeee Mara-Grace!!! The BUS the first day. Amazing! KInd of anticlimactic for the rest of you, but a good kind of anticlimactic.
    Dawn

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